Choices.

When you make choices for you and your partner are they always the right one? Do you just go along with decisions made to make that person happy? Are you happy with those decisions made? These questions often come up when i sit back and look at the world. I sit back and look at others relationships and listen to peoples problems and can't help but ask them these questions. I often see that people make certain decisions just to make their partner happy. Doing that never help the situation because later on in the road will you eventually regret it. In life you never want to regret anything. Another thing that pops in my mind is that if you make decisions you don't like just for your partner, is that considered lying? Going with the flow? No one wants part of a relationship. It's either all or nothing. I'm sure if you give your honest opinion to your partner they would respect you more for being honest and truthful rather then lying. Lying causes consequences, some that might even take the worst toll. At the time it may seem right to say what would make them happy, but it won't in the end. So for those who just say things to make that special person happy, DON'T DO IT ANYMORE. NEVER be afraid to speak your mind. You are who you are and if your partner does not like that then they aren't meant for you because down the road you will find that special person who likes you for you. So speak up (;