Lets face it. Do we,(teenagers), really know what "love" is? We arely know how to get a job, let alone fall is love with someone. Is love whwn you get that butterfly feeling everytime you're around that person? Is it when you feel like everything is perfect, thta no moment could be better when your with them? Truth is us teens say we love one another after we have been dating for awhile. do we really mean the words we speak? Is it love or lust? These questions seem to remain unanswered for us. Okay, so maybe some teenagers may be "in love" with their boyfriend or girlfriend, but personally I do not know whether or not i do. Don't get me wrong though, i may have a lot of feelings for someone, but I'm not sure iff i could just say it. I love you. It's scary. Well to me its scary.
I feel like if i tell someone i love them, i have to reall mean it. Like REALLY mean it. It't some word you can just throw around. The expression, "you wear you heart on your sleeve", is so true. Some girls do that exact thing and when they open up and tell their boyfriend they love them and they start saying it untill one day its over. The girl is left heartbroken. Thinking she actually loved him. Yeah this is just my opinion but i see this happen all the time in highschool. It's crazy. I feel terrible. That exact things scares me. Do i really want to be left heartbroken after opening up to the one i supposeably "loved"? Pesronally half the time love is actually lust in teenage situations. In high school we go from one boyfriend to another(unless you have actually found that one person you tuly want to be with throughout highschool.) I'm just like those girls though. From experiance i say, Girls, don't fall for that one person too hard because you never know what the future would lead to. Enjoy your high school lives. For when the real world comes you want to be prepared. Guys come and go. So don't let stuff get in your way of your future, and your goals. Goodluck :)
Then again i dont really follow my own advice to be giving you guys any, but still try as i will do the same. Let me know how it works out for you guys.
This is a great movie as an example of true teenage love :)
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